No one is born perfect in this world. A perfect born person would be an absolute soul. But for those who are born without an absolute soul, would seek to complete their missingness. That is the quality that we seek in a soulmate. A piece of you within them which incompletes them, and a piece of them within you which incompletes you. A unique pair of souls, made for each other.

Yin Yang is a Chinese concept of dualism which describes how two opposites are needed for the existence of each other. There is no light without darkness and darkness without light. There is no life without death and death without life. There is no me without you and you without me.

In Taoism, the yin yang is considered to be energy that lies within a man and a woman. The man filled with the yang energy and the woman filled with the yin energy. While yang is considered as light, yin is considered as darkness.

A soulmate is someone who understands you to the deepest extend. It doesn’t have to be your secrets, a deeper understanding is where your secrets doesn’t even mater, a connection of souls, you can say. A true relationship may be one, where the one soul truly understands what the other soul feels like. There will be no limit for love and no space for hatred. It is said that in heaven, a soul always has its true soulmate. So if a man is light, and a woman is darkness, is the woman evil?

What yin yang says is the existence of two energies and without one, the other will not exist. Let’s consider the different phases of a moon as an example. There is a full moon, new moon, half moon, crescent moon, and so on. Even if we see a half moon, we need to realize that the moon is still there as a whole. We only see it as half because of the shadow of the Earth, which hides the other half. A shadow that always reminds us that light can only exist if there is darkness. Soulmates are two entities who are so different from each other, but they are created such a way that the one cannot exist without the other.

“When I looked at the moon, I realized that I was indeed born on a full moon!” ~ Syed Shah